One of my besties insist I cover this topic pronto so without further ado…mind fux are becoming a popular occurring phenomenon.  People take great pride in fcuking with your mind when they could be fcuking you.  A mind fuck is nothing more than a mental game thrown out there to cause a preferred reaction or simply as a mere test to see “what you would do”…survival of the fittest so how much bull$hit can you take and how much of your pride can you stand to swallow?  Some of the most commonly occuring and most annoying ass mind  fcuks include:

and the Award goes toooooooo………….

• Hinting towards the “L” word and provoking thoughts of seriousness
• Spending time with someone at your whim and ignoring them on other occasions
• Saying “Is it mine?” or “whose is it?” at ANY point…
• Introducing a chick to your boys or a dude to your girls when you know he/she is around for the season
• Asking “is it the best you ever had?”  (really think you’re going to get an honest answer to that one?)
• Trying to send a mister/misses the message that they’re just an option; however, you NEED what they got!
• Convincing a man you’re “saving yourself” or “waiting” and for what?

Dare to add to this list???

My homey Preston Swagger over at Truth Merchants stole the sugar out of the kool-aid with this one!! I was just thinking about covering this the other day but all props to Truth Merchants for beating me to it <Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner>? But I still reserve the right to expound on the issue.  In a time where we might be seeing a BLACK President grace our national presence and blah blah blah, does this same sense of colorblind acceptance creep within the confines of our bedrooms?

I was laughing my culo off the other day at Chris Rock’s stand up Kill the Messenger wh

ere he joked about white women and black men being enamored, however, black women are reluctant to take the fatal plunge into interracial dating.  I personally know aLOT of unhappy, single black women and I must pose the question…are they unhappy because

they are limiting their options?  Black woman, would you be willing to date a sexy hot white boy?  Sleep with him?? And how about marry him dare I ask???  I wanna take a moment and pay homage to a few sexy white dudes that I wouldn’t mind saying “I do” too even though momma might put the shotgun to my back!!!